April 16, 2019 Blog No Comments

You know the thrill of walking on a beach and finding the perfect shell.  It’s like a gift. Lately I’ve had a stunning run of these random occurrences, highlighting for me that random is not always so random. Let me share the lessons I’m seeing.

There is significance to all of life’s events. When putting them in context of the bigger picture of your life, you can start seeing that some of the random ones may be serving an important role to help move things forward in your life.

Here are a few things to pay attention to and consider so you can recognize the potential awaiting you in random events.


If you have randomly met people who seem to have the perfect piece of information or can serve in a role you have been looking for in your life – pay attention.

In the last few weeks I’ve met a woman from Kenya who is the perfect conduit for our non-profit work and a man who reached out to me from Germany who wants to join in the experiences I’ve had in Africa. We met another person who wants to support our work, and others who wants to partner. I knew instantly with each of them that that it was important to notice what was happening.

Notice how people come out of nowhere and seem to be exactly what you are looking for.


What was immediately apparent to me was that I could trust these people’s intentions and that there was a reason for their connection with me. This is not typical. There are lots of people I meet who don’t affect me in this way.

What made this different was I could see how they fit into a pattern of occurrences in my life and could potentially play a significant role. There was an immediate knowing in me and it went both ways. They recognized the same thing at the same time as me.

If you instantly know someone is a good fit for you or your work, trust it.


At no time is the Law of Vibration more apparent than in these situations. We are drawing in the energetic match to what we are seeking. That is why these random encounters seem amazing and provide the instant “knowing” that occurs.

When the other person knows at the same time as you, it’s another sign that you are energetically matched. I often feel a rush of energy with the hair on my arms raised – they will often report the same thing.

An energetic match is occurring that is mutually experienced.


I like to tell my clients that when you are on the right path, it’s like a red carpet is rolling out in front of you. In this case, I am watching it roll very quickly, which is always a good sign.

Things are happening for a reason and the reason is one I have created with some very specific intention. When you are clear with your desires, notice how incidents randomly occur to help you meet them. Receive and treat these events with openness and tremendous respect. There is no room for questionable fear for it will freeze the flow of energy and block you. If it seems amazing – it is.

Receive the flow of unfolding energy with respect and notice how it moves to enhance your life.

There has been a rush of random events in my life that are lining up to bring things I desire to fruition. I’m paying attention for they aren’t so random after all. There have been chance meetings of great significance,  complete with mutual knowing that we are meant to help each other. I’m aware that the Law of Vibration is at work, bringing in the very people I’ve been hoping to meet. I’m noticing how these events are moving me closer to actualizing new dreams. When you are clear about what you want, things like this will begin to happen. Random is not so random at all.

This flow of random events began by becoming clear about my intentions and noticing the patterns in how they are being met. If you’d like help to create new movement and direction in your life, reach out. My Transformational Life Coaching and Therapy is designed to help you initiate this kind of positive manifestation. You can use my Free Consultation link at www.spectrumtransformation.com for more information to see if this would be a fit for what you are seeking. I’d love to help you make this happen too.

Written by Connie Milligan, LCSW
If there is anything I’ve expressed that speaks to you, I’d love to hear from you. You can reach me at my email, connie [at] conniemilligan [dot] com